The Hayaa Oasis
Silent Musings of a Dunya Wonderer
Weekly Writes.
Umm Idris is a stay-at-home mother who often self-reflects about her life at night over a hot cup of tea. Whenever she finds ambiguity in her life experiences, she becomes heavily invested in dissecting them to understand them better. Believing in finding answers by questioning and exploring things that happen, she hopes that sharing it with the world will help her find some clarity in such muddy waters.
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Welcoming A Beginning: What Will Your 1447H Look Like?
As the Hijri year ends, let us reflect on our personal accomplishments and desires for self-improvement as an ummah. Nothing like refining our focus and recommitment to our deen to rejuvenate our faith once again.
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Woe To She Who Damns Her Husband’s Honor.
The best of wives are those who fight to preserve the reputation of their husbands. In doing so, she honors him and regards him as a man of dignity and impeccable character. What she paints in the sky, reflects his story. Weekly Writes written by Umm Idris. 20.06.25, 12:00pm. In the past, both men and…
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Dear Mother-In-Law.
I have something to say, and you are not going to like it. But this needs to be said, and one will simply have to sit down and listen intently to this rude awakening.
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She Tried To Rub Her Breasts Against My Husband In The Land Of Haram.
Makkah is no longer the safe haven of a Muslim or Muslimah. When pilgrims bring shocking behaviours so nauseating it would humiliate the ummah if the Prophet (salallahu ‘alaihi wassalam) witnessed it, what can we do but hide in isolation? Weekly Writes written by Umm Idris. 11.04.24, 12:00pm. Almost two decades ago, I had the…
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You Will Never Hear An Apology From Her.
There is greater honour in the humility and bravery that is seen from making amends and admitting your fault than there is making amends and explaining away misunderstandings. For the hurting, harm is harm regardless of its true intent.
The Hayaa Oasis 