Tag: hayaa
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For The Blushing Bride: Let’s Talk About Sex.
While it remains the ultimate taboo topic for an engaged Muslimah to talk about, it continues to be an important conversation to have. This author begins this series of writes with an invitation to provide knowledgeable support and reassurances for those who are nervous to begin their married lives.
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The Mini Parental Series: Have We Let Go Too Much?
When is granting autonomy and freedom too much for your child? Is there a moment in our parenting journey where we need to ask ourselves if taking control becomes counterproductive to their iman or critical and neccessary for the sake of it?
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My Neighbour With A Blackened Heart.
There is nothing quite like an ice-cold dose of reality when you discover than even the closest of people to you are simply waiting to celebrate any grief or discord in your home and marriage.
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We Are All Getting Dressed To Go To Jahannam.
Amidst the chaos of dunya, there is a gutwrenching fear that settles in my heart at the sight of our ummah. As I observe our brothers and sisters, I discover the rising inclination to compromise one’s awrah becoming parallel to that of the rising population who have gone to sleep in their adherence to the…
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She Tried To Rub Her Breasts Against My Husband In The Land Of Haram.
Makkah is no longer the safe haven of a Muslim or Muslimah. When pilgrims bring shocking behaviours so nauseating it would humiliate the ummah if the Prophet (salallahu ‘alaihi wassalam) witnessed it, what can we do but hide in isolation? Weekly Writes written by Umm Idris. 11.04.24, 12:00pm. Almost two decades ago, I had the…
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Warning: Even Your Mother Can Afflict Nazr Upon You.
Many overlook the reality of nazr. Let me share with you a story, one every Muslim would deeply regret experiencing, shows how a lack of caution and humility in sharing blessings can lead to the loss of a Muslim’s most desired dream.
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How You Find Your Man of Deen: It’s Not What You’d Think.
Just when we Muslimahs reach the stage of marriage, we face the age-old dilemma of every woman our age encounters. The right of passage to the path of marital bliss is hindered by daunting task of finding the perfect man for us. And so we ask ourselves: how do you even find the fella?
The Hayaa Oasis 