Secret Garden.
The Prophet (ﷺ) said:
“None of you [truly] believes
until he loves for his brother
that which he loves for himself.”
Narrated by Anas ibn Malik (ra), Sahih Al – Bukhari (13)
Umm Idris believes strongly in the importance of having a pillar of support in our Muslimah community. She intends to strive to do this through virtual reality where many can enjoy anonymity that protects their hayaa. There is nothing like finding a sanctuary that releases us from the shackles of the stresses of this dunya. Here is a safe tranquil space for you to be unravel and be freely vulnerable. It is in her best interest to simply be present and actively listen to you. What works for you?
Disclaimer: Umm Idris highlights that she offers no commentary or guidance concerning fiqh or religious clarifications of islamic knowledge. Such support must be sought from reliable and trustworthy scholars of our time following the Quran and Sunnah of our Prophet ﷺ.
Seeking support need not only be about lamenting about your past and existing problems. Rather, it is an opportunity for self-reflection and rediscovering the possibilities of what life can offer you.

let’s be virtual penpals.
With a personalised biweekly email correspondence between you and Umm Idris, this becomes our safe space where you may find objectivity in the support that you seek. To be penpals, is to be your virtual friend who is there to listen to you and provide you the support you truly need especially when you are alone. Are you looking for a friend?

ask umm idris.
As we attempt to support one another as Muslimahs, we continue to battle the time-sensitive dunya that we live in. While we need someone to talk to, we remain restricted by hours of the day when we reach out to others. To want a better version of ourselves, is to seek insight and objective advice or an alternative perspective. Sometimes it is to simply reach catharsis before it eats us up. Let’s eliminate the weather talk and get straight to it. Ask her your questions anonymously on instagram or tell her anything you wish freely.
